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My non-religious ceremonies are a really happy occassion. Every ceremony is designed to your choices, to encompass your beliefs and requirements. Imagine a ceremony that marks a major life event in a way that is personal, sincere, and honest…

Perhaps welcoming a much-loved baby to the world with a bespoke naming ceremony.

Or celebrating a couple’s marriage in a way that is sincere, warm, loving and genuine, that’s about the two of them and their relationship, and is full laughter and perhaps a few tears too.

Or a funeral that focuses on the person who had died and the life they led – not on the idea of an afterlife – but recalling the happy times, the loving times - and provides a dignified and sincere way of saying goodbye.https://www.humanism.scot/humanist-ceremonies/why-choose-us/

The death of someone we know and love is often shocking and painful, even if it is expected.

Humanist funerals and memorial services offer a personal and fitting way to say goodbye to those who have lived without religion.

Humanist funerals bring people together to express sadness at the loss but also to celebrate the life lived. They focus sincerely and affectionately on the person who has died, paying tribute to the connections they made and left behind and the way they lived their life.

Whilst a funeral director is the professional most likely to deal with the practical arrangements of a funeral, what type of ceremony you choose is entirely up to you. And since funerals themselves have no legal status, humanist funerals – like all others – can be held in a variety of places, although in practice most are held in crematoria, cemeteries or woodland burial sites.https://www.humanism.scot/humanist-ceremonies/funerals/funeral-poems-readings-music/

They met on a cold and wet May weekend at Tralee Bay near Oban, where they’d gone for a Ski Club weekend. Over Fish & Chips at the caravan park chip van, - how romantic. She’s a good, solid, down to earth lass, not much worries or phases her, not a handbags & shoes kind of girl, but has expensive tastes in Goretex jackets. He's a genuinely nice person and looks after her, (she can be a nightmare sometimes he said!), a Jack-of-all trades and good at DIY / building things, her ski-tech and bike maintenance boy, Head of Security in the household, cuts the grass & puts the bins out. A perfect match! Congratulations Lyndsey & Paul, you are now married!

Bride Lesley walked down aisle to her very own pipe tune, written by her Grandpa Fleming, as her groom Calum waited with a beaming smile when he saw her for the first time. More smiles, laughs and giggles followed - even a few happy tears - as they and their guests revelled in the joy of their wedding day - at last, finally, at the 3rd attempt. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Mackintosh.

My husband and I chose Neil for our big day as we thought he would bring a great balance of humour and love to our ceremony and we were not disappointed! Neil is amazing and we were so happy to have him as part of our day he couldnt have made it any easier and we both thoroughly enjoyed every second of the ceremony Tanni was just beautiful and so well behaved we were so happy she joined us also thanks again

a late autumn elopement, in the woods, with glorious sunshine streaming through the copper leaves and a nip in the air, a dapper groom and a beautiful bride in a stunning dress, a couple of dogs romping about, (theirs and ours), birds singing...love is in the air for Julie & Liam. What more could you ask for? And now they're Mr & Mrs Turner!

We originally booked Neil to do our big wedding (which wasn’t meant to be until sept 2021). However we changed our minds as 2020 just grew to be so uncertain, which meant 2021 would be much the same. We decided to have a tiny wedding. Neil was so helpful throughout the whole process and guided us a lot along the way. We can’t thank you and your wife enough! We could have had a guest list of 1000 with the ceremony Neil prepared. It was just perfect. Thank you Julie and Liam

a wild & windy hill at Bridge of Dye today...🌧💨the rain was lashing just a few minutes before we began, the tail end of the storm blowing through. We trudged up the hill through heather & mud to a wee clearing between trees with a stunning view before us. The rain had stopped, the guests formed a circle of love, groom Murray waited nervously for the arrival of his bride Lauren, escorted by her dad Rob. Hugs & kisses, the Prince had found his Princess and now they are married! 😍They'll have their celebration party sometime in the future, Lauren will be able to wear her dress and yellow wellies again! 💘

What can we say about Neil. He’s one of the most warm and welcoming people that I’ve ever come across. So flexible and willing to adapt to any plan our crackpot scheme you desire. Take us for example. We got married on Halloween, in gale force winds and potentially driving rain (though the sun and a rainbow actually came out in the end) His zest and passion is refreshing.

Neil has officiated at hundreds of weddings and by goodness does it show. He has a mastery of balancing words and emotion. Succeeding in transforming Murray and my journey into a story for all to enjoy.
Neil, I cried when I thought you wouldn’t be able to be our officiant. That’s how awesome we believed you to be, before even meeting you.
One ceremony later and I know that our instinct was spot on. We look forward to our next instalment in 2021.

Walk through towering Douglas firs to the folly of Ossian’s Hall, and gaze over the falls. Look up! The giant Douglas firs here are among the tallest trees in Britain.🌲Come face to face with the thunderous Black Linn Falls – best viewed from Ossian’s Hall. 😮Breathe in the earthy woodland and tang of pine needles as you wander along the banks of the River Braan. Look out for the totem pole hidden in the woods – and red squirrels darting about in the tree tops.
See salmon leaping up the falls in autumn as they head to spawning grounds further along the river. 😮This stretch of magical Perthshire forest was originally designed as a pleasure ground in the 18th century for the Dukes of Atholl. And it was here, inside Ossians Hall, that Sarah & Matt decided to have their wedding. 🥰And why not? Could you get a more dramatic, intimate venue? ❤️

Neil was fantastic through every step of the way - from the first FaceTime to the ceremony and all the emails and Covid changes. His communication was great throughout and he made us feel relaxed on the big day. I couldn’t recommend Neil enough - he was great!

They did it! At last, Sara & Chris, they did it! 😍 And in the place so special to them both, for this is where the proposal took place. Actually, two proposals - because after he proposed to her, he said that she should propose to him - and she did! That was a few years ago but 3 years ago from today they declared their commitment to each other in a lovely ceremony after a somewhat arduous day...they'd just run a marathon! No such exertions today though as they toddled up a wee hill to the Barracks again, to declare their love and devotion to each other - for life. And stepped over the broom into a new chapter of their love story. As husband and wife. Officially Mr & Mrs Cull. Once in a lifetime, you find someone who loves you for who you are and not who you could be. ❤️

re-visited the beautiful Torren Lochan at Glencoe today, where, joined by Katy Homan & Jim Caryl, Photographers, I had the pleasure of joining in matrimony a lovely couple, Kelly and Tom from Colchester. A time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that brought them here. And a time to look ahead at all the wonderful moments that are still to come.

way up north yesterday, through the beautiful county of Sutherland to the tiny hamlet of Oldshoremore beach to meet and marry a lovely couple, Andrea Ďuricová & Graham Bradshaw, two people so right for each other and so much in love. Days like these are so special. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Bradshaw. ❤️

Just had an amazing wedding on a secluded beach in the north of Scotland with Neil. It really couldn’t have gone any better. After rescheduling due to Covid, we had great weather in an absolutely fantastic location. Neil made the ceremony entertaining, engaged many of the guests, brought along humour and some education too. Now, after tying the knot, I know where tying the knot comes from.
Nothings too much trouble for Neil and he accommodated everything we hoped for and more. I’ll definitely be contacting him for my next wedding 😬.
Highly recommended!

what a simply beautiful place to be married. It's quiet, peaceful, romantic and awe-inspiring. Lynsey & Patrick decided it was the perfect place to pledge their love, devotion and commitment to each as life-long soul mates - and husband and wife. ❤️ And it was perfect as their wee Bella came along too. My Harris tweed woven by Shawbost Weavers of Lewis and kilt tailored by Braw Kilts of Edinburgh.

Neil married us on Scarista beach on the isle of Harris on 12th August. He was amazing with us throughout the whole process including our original date being postponed. Neil's communication is brilliant!! Also a special mention to Neil's wife Ann who assisted me down to the beach and of course the beautiful Tanni who was oh so patient with our daughter Bella. I wish we could do it all again! It was an emotional day (in the best way!) and with plenty of belly laughs. Thank you again Neil!! Best wishes from The Bonthrones xx

back to that historic place that is Glencoe today, for a wedding in the sunshine of Jenna & Stuart. An American and a Kiwi, meeting in London- quite the epic trek to find each other! ☺ They found a kindred spirit and charmed each other on a hot London summers’ night - and since then have slowly written their own love story. They even endured the challenges of the last months during the COVID lockdown….24 hours a day ☺ A true test for any relationship! Congratulations! You are now married!❤️ (Tanni stealing the limelight yet again.🙄)

Neil conducted our ceremony in Glencoe last week and we are so grateful we chose him! It was the day we dreamed of and his words and the way he conducted the ceremony was perfection. We contacted him during COVID when we decided to elope, and he was so personable, helpful, and genuinely interested in crafting the perfect day for us. He was well respected and recommended by all who worked with him for his professionalism, and after working with him, we couldn't agree more! He helped us with so many details like picking the right location (and re-routing when we ran into unexpected traffic the day of!), helping my husband find a kilt maker, and even had a spare quaich cup when we forgot ours at the hotel. He also really helped us think through our ceremony, what was important to us, and helped us connect to the soul and purpose of the day amongst the swirling logistics of coordinating a wedding. I am so grateful we chose him, and it was an honor to have him (and his dog Tanni! ) with us on our wedding day. No hesitations, recommend booking him and working with him wholeheartedly. Thank you Neil Lynch and @tannitheweddingdogdiva""

Life has been difficult for them both at times, but now they are together, life is good. And for Christopher, having Katie by his side is the best feeling ever - and now he’s getting to marry her! Love wins. ❤️

From 1st Meeting Neil we knew straight away we wanted him to Marry us! He was a bit of us as they say! He made us feel at ease with every stage, kept us updated on what we needed to do.

When it came to our day I was mega nervous but Neil managed to calm me down and reassure me. Our Ceremony was so special with the added humour that all our guests loved! He made us feel amazing and I could never thank him enough!

Neil your an amazing man and I wish you all the best!

Nikki and Drew FINALLY tied the knot yesterday...after 20 years!...a fun couple but crazy as frogs, 🐸they laughed and laughed and laughed. But their deep love was so evident and I was honoured to play a small part in their big day. And we finished off by singing Abba's Dancing Queen...their song. ❤️ Congratulations Mr & Mrs Russell. 🥰 — at The Vu.

Couldn’t ask for more! My introduction to Neil was met with a firm handshake and an immediate sense of ease. He was an absolute superstar and totally professional and in control.

I would highly recommend not reading the final draft of what Neil composes for you on your special day. Trust me. Both my wife and I were hanging on every word he said and our guests were totally captivated. Very funny, proper laugh out loud moments, poignant, thoughtful and the whole service summed up the two of us perfectly.

A double celebration here today....a wedding for local couple Becky & Steven... followed by a naming ceremony for their gorgeous wee girl Luna! How much love can you pack in to one day?! There was some pre-wedding anxiety and nervous excitement from a certain lady in white but all disappeared in a flash once we began the ceremony. A few minutes in and little Luna stole the show, by innocently strolling up the aisle, completely lost in a world of her own. She was SO cute! ♥️ Once the newly-weds had completed their nuptials, it was Luna's turn to star as we immediately followed on with her naming ceremony. Becky and Steven chose the name Luna as it represents the moon and she shines the brightest in their lives. It’s simply a beautiful name for a beautiful baby. And Luna’s middle name Anne is in honour of Becky's gran who sadly isn't here anymore.
May the raindrops fall gently on your brow
May the soft winds freshen your spring
May the sunshine brighten your heart
May the burdens of the day rest lightly on you
And may you always be enfolded in a mantle of love
Welcome to the world and to our lives Luna. ♥️.

This was THE moment from yesterday's wedding...baby Luna walking up the aisle to mummy & daddy Becky & Steven. SO wish I had the presence of mind to take her picture from the top of the aisle.

Neil: The ceremony was perfect. Absolutely perfect. We enjoyed you so much and are so happy to have had the opportunity to work with you. Tanny was a doll and added her special touch to the photos. She is such a beautiful pup. Neil you gave us more than a perfect ceremony. You have have also introduced us Humanism and inspired us to learn more about the society here in North Carolina.

© Otago Street Collective

Alanna & Brianna...all the way from Janesville, Wisconsin, to Skye, to search for their perfect location, the Quiraing, to declare their love and devotion to each other...for eternity. Two individuals with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one. LOVE wins.

Adele MacPherson and Mark Mackenzie got married! They're both a bit weird at times, but they love it - and they make each other laugh all the time! A solid foundation for a lifelong love affair! Best wishes to you both! 💗

I just wanted to say a massive thank you from Mark and I. You made the whole process so easy for us, made us feel like we could get through it all - especially through the ceremony haha. Also for taking extra time to help my niece that meant a lot. We have had nothing but compliments about the ceremony -some people had never been to a humanist wedding before and loved it & some said it was the best they’ve ever been too! They said that you were fab and the way you delivered it made it so special. We totally agree. Thanks again for making our day so special. We definitely chose the best.

Adele & Mark

They say no-one does love & romance like the French...and no-one does weddings like HSS Celebrants...so bring them both together, Claire & Benoit from Sauchay near Dieppe and "moi"...and we have a typical Scottish wedding in the Glencoe/Glen Etive hills, with rain, midges, sunshine & rainbows, loads of l'amour & laughs, happy tears, readings in French...och!...we had it all! ♥️🇫🇷🏴 Vive la France! Vieille Alliance! Picture © Pernille Olgod

Nafez and David came all the way from Australia with daughter Zara to declare their love of one another in one of the most spectacular settings I have had the pleasure to visit, The Highland Club, formerly a Benedictine monastery at Fort Augustus. A beautifully devoted couple, so much in love. Two people in love is all that matters. ♥️ Husbands, soulmates and together forever.

Thank you so much for an amazing ceremony and sharing this special day with us Neil. When we finally met in person we all felt so comfortable, it was like catching up with an old friend. Neil is an amazing Humanist Celebrent. We come all the way from Melbourne Australia to get married on the shores of Loch Ness in Fort Augustus and so the contact with him leading up to the wedding was a couple of FaceTime calls and a lot of emails. But he made us feel so comfortable with everything he did. His professionalism, his sense of humour and the way he cared about our day made it an amazing experience and one we will never forget.
Thank you so much for being our celebrant.

Fort Augustus Abbey, properly St. Benedict's Abbey, at Fort Augustus, was a monastery, from late in the nineteenth century to 1998. It owed its inception to the desire of John Crichton-Stuart, 3rd Marquess of Bute, for the restoration of monasticism in Scotland. The marquess brought the matter before the superiors of the Anglo-Benedictine Congregation in 1874, promising substantial pecuniary help in the establishment of a house in Scotland, with the understanding that when two other monasteries should have been founded they should all form a separate Scottish congregation. The suggestion was approved of, and the Anglo-Benedictine authorities resolved to incorporate with the Scottish monastery Lamspringe Abbey, in Hanover, which was manned by English monks from 1645 to 1803. Inadequacy of funds had prevented any lasting restoration of this house, but with the help promised by Lord Bute, it seemed possible to revive it in Scotland. Dom Jerome Vaughan, a brother of Cardinal Vaughan, was appointed to superintend the work, and succeeded in collecting from rich and poor in England, Scotland, and Ireland, sufficient means for the erection of a fine monastery a cost of some £70,000. The site at Fort Augustus was given by Simon Fraser, 13th Lord Lovat. It comprised the buildings of a dismantled fort, built in 1729 and originally erected for the suppression of Highland Jacobites. It had been purchased from the Government by the Lovat family, in 1867. The monastic buildings begun in 1876 were completed in 1880, occupying the four sides of a quadrangle about one hundred feet square. In one wing a school for boys of the upper classes was conducted by the monks, with lay masters, for about sixteen years. © WikipediA

first visit to Logie Country House for me today, a Scottish Castle and Estate dating back to 1492. Here to meet Cupid and conduct the wedding of Sarah, a local Aberdeen quine and her beau, Kristopher, from Glasgow. The weather fairies 🧚‍♀️were kind as the rain 🌦stopped 10 minutes before the start time. Sarah was ready to go, cool and relaxed, as Kristopher stood nervously at the alloted spot in the inner courtyard. Just 20 minutes later, before the rain came on again, after big laughs and a few happy tears during the vows, they were Mr & Mrs Wesencraft. Evereybody say Aawww! 😍 F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S...Best dress of the year for Sarah!
The House, built in 1680, is set at the foot of Bennachie, overlooking the river Urie, which runs across the front lawn. It is surrounded by fields and woodland which are frequented by Deer, Otters, Red squirrels and Owls. The house and new purpose built ballroom are available as an exclusive use wedding venue. The house has an indoor infinity pool, two kitchens, thirteen bedrooms (sleeping 30) and five entertaining rooms. Outside there is an inner and outer courtyard, two hot tubs and a private island. Not a bad place for a wedding eh? Big thanks to Gillian & her team for making things go like clockwork.

Now that the dust has settled from the best few days of our lives we wanted to get in touch to pass on our heartfelt thanks and gratitude for making our wedding day so special. From the minute you arrived on Wednesday you were a very calming and reassuring presence (essential when it looked like the rain might ruin our plans!) The service itself was an absolute joy, I never expected to laugh so much at my own wedding but it was everything Sarah and I hoped that it would be - and some.
The feedback from our guests was outstanding - you clearly made a huge impression. Some of our older guests who had never been to a humanist wedding before were telling us it was by far the nicest and most touching wedding ceremony they had ever attended.
I still can’t believe how the weather turned out exactly at 2pm and from that moment on it was literally the perfect day for us. So thank you for all your time and efforts both in the run-up to the wedding and at the wedding itself.
We would like to wish you continued health, happiness and success in the future and we hope that we might have the opportunity to cross paths again in future, ideally at one of our friends’ weddings! Sarah & Kris

back again at the beautiful wedding venue of Achnagairn to marry a cool, calm and collected couple, Sandie & Ross from Longside in Aberdeenshire. The whole shebang was organised by the groom and he did well with his spreadsheets! And Sandie blew everyone away with her stunning dress! Lots of love & congratulations Mr & Mrs MacDonald! 😍

Neil was the celebrant for our wedding. He was an absolute delight to deal with from the very start. Totally took on board everything we asked for and delivered a ceremony that was both personal and humourous. Every guest commented on how good it was and that they're definitely going Humanist for any future event. 10/10 would recommend Neil again.

SANDIE & ROSS

all the way from Australia to the remnants of Castle Ewen at Fairy Glen, Uig, Isle of Skye for Jackie & Josh today...to pledge their love and commitment to each other in marriage...and for Josh to promise to protect Jackie from spiders!...as well as love her forever too of course!❤️

Josh and I just wanted to say a very big thank you for everything you did on our wedding day! It was an amazing experience having you marry us, and a very Scottish one at that! Everyone commented that you were absolutely perfect, just that nice balance between funny and emotional, which suited us just right. We really appreciate everything you’ve helped us with in the preparation, and for your amazing communication throughout the whole process. I know Josh particularly appreciated the chat you had with him before the ceremony, as it helped calm him down a little. We couldn’t have asked for a better person to marry us!

so Jen & Andrew had their nuptials today, at Airth Castle. One of their bridesmaids today, Claire, was married by me last year - and Jen was one of Claire's bridesmaids then. And having seen Tanni's presence, Jen and Andrew wanted her on the guest list today too. The Diva 🐶duly obliged and sat quietly through the secret & surprise ceremony script. A couple of imaginative inclusions at the beginning and end of the ceremony, lots of laughs and a few happy tears too for this lovely couple. Two people so delightfully suited to one another, they have a connection. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Jude. Live long & love lots. ❤️

Thank you so much for delivering what we can only describe as the most perfect ceremony for us. You got to know me and Andrew and every word you said was perfect. We got so many compliments about the ceremony and how it was personal and also funny. We are so happy we found you and also that Tanni got to be there. Thank you again for being part of our special day. Love Jen & Andrew x

Katrina and Alistair from Chicago had their nuptials at the top of a hill in the glen today, this magical, almost mystical place. Chilly it was, breezy it was, lovely 💕 it was too! Now husband and wife and soulmates for life! ❤️ Neil hasn’t married us yet, but he’s been an absolute rock during the process. It’s so helpful having someone guide you through. He’s incredibly responsive and will explain all your questions as best he can. Amazing service so far.

Neil was great! He walked us through everything before and it was smooth and lovely.

Chevonne & James pledged their love and commitment to each other surrounded by friends and family. Chevonne wore a beautiful dress, James cool as cucumber but both had stars in their eyes as they celebrated their love on the happiest day of their life.

"May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years."

a wondferful wedding today, on the first day of the new year, in glorious sunshine on Crear beach, as we looked out over the sea towards the islands of Islay and Jura. It was here that a couple, so much in love and so right for each other said their passionate and romantic self composed vows to each other in marriage. But it's the proposal that was extra special, almost 2 years ago.
Steph & Chris, snuggled around little Esme, reading one of her favourites, ‘You Choose’. A book they’ve read countless times and know off by heart. However, that night, on the final page, there was something different. As they scanned a series of illustrations of various beds, all had to ‘choose’ the one each would like best.
Rather disappointedly, Esme declared, “Where’s the lady gone?” as she pointed at her favourite blue four-poster. “That’s weird,” Steph added, “I don’t remember a family in that bed….” Then she read what the rather handsome chap in the bed was saying, “Will you marry me? You choose!”
It must have felt like a lifetime for Chris, waiting for Steph to catch on. In her defense, how could she have guessed that Chris would have contacted the illustrator of the book to personally draw the little family of three snuggled up in that bed. After much disbelief, Chris produced the most perfect ring. One he had designed himself, taking inspiration from Steph's little quirks – bumblebees and love hearts included. Of course Steph agreed - and all that brought them both to this special time and place today. Romantic? 10/10!

Neil’s attentive approach to crafting a personalised and memorable ceremony for our wedding made our day a uniquely special occasion. My new wife and I can’t thank him enough for helping to ensure we never forget just how amazing our wedding day was. Steph & Chris

a breezy and decidely chilly location today for the wedding ceremony of Jaime & Kent from Walnut Creek, California. The weather did not deter them though as the hugged each other in the wind, looked adoringly at each other and exchanged knowing glances throughout the ceremony. The Eskimo has fifty-two names for snow because it is important to them; there ought to be as many for love. ❤️

Neil, we were so glad for you to be part of our special day and honoured to be wed in your beautiful country. We will cherish our memories of you and your country for years to come...until we return!!!

Jaime & Kent

bem vindo a Escócia to Rafaela & Angus, to Pittodrie House Hotel at Pitcaple, where we gathered to witness and celebrate the marriage of Rafa and Gus following their wedding in Brazil. Much love, 😍 much joy, much happiness for this lovely couple. They just fit together, like pieces of a jigsaw. And they had an unconventional quaich toast to each other - with yoghurt! 😯 They do things differently in Brazil! viver muito e amar muito (live long & love lots).🇧🇷️❤️🏴

Neil, We thought choosing a Humanist wouild be a difficult, time consuming task but as soon as we saw your photos and read your website - we were taken. You always had a smile on your face and kind words to offer. We wanted nothing more. Our ceremony was something straight out of our dreams, so full of love! You tailored every little bit around us and made us feel exactly the way we wanted to; free from pressure and comfortable. The moment was about nothing but what we felt for each other. Words will never be enough to thank you for everything, so please be assured that the ceremony which you conducted will live forever in our memories, always accompanied by a smile. We couldn’t have chosen a better celebrant! What a beautiful ceremony it was. Thank you and obrigada a million times for everything. Rafaela & Angus

back down south, to Dumfriesshire and GG's Yard again at Laggan Gatehouse of Fleet. Love this place, great place for a wedding, Vicki, her mum Jackie and the staff so helpful and welcoming. And today it was Kath and Jason who tied the knot there and are now the new Mr & Mrs Jootun. Congratulations!

"From the first Skype conversation with Neil we knew we had chosen a great celebrant for our wedding. Neil is funny, warm and made us feel really relaxed about the whole process of writing our own ceremony which could have been daunting. Neil created a beautiful ceremony for us that was so personal. All our guests commented on how lovely it was and how great it was that Neil had clearly taken the time to get to know us as a couple. The whole ceremony captured exactly what was important and we enjoyed every second, every word meant something to us. Thank you so much Neil."

Kathryn McConnachie and Bradley from Johannesburg, South Africa swapped an African summer for a Scottish autumn/winter to marry at the Quiraing with family and friends. And the weather fairy was kind...the hailstones didn’t arrive until after they finished reading their beautiful, self composed, loving and at times humorous vows to each other. We had a few laughs, the diva Tanni was in her element. Thanks to Danny Birrell Photography and Alan MacKenzie, Skye piper. And congratulations to Mr & Mrs Stephenson.

If you're considering booking Neil as your celebrant - DO IT! We planned our elopement style wedding all the way from South Africa, and from my very first contact with Neil, he was incredibly friendly and helpful. He guided us through the process of getting married in Scotland and helped us immensely by putting us in touch with various suppliers. When we met him on the day, it felt like we already knew him. He was so calm and accommodating. His warmth and sense of humour were infused throughout the beautiful ceremony and set the tone for an incredible day. He helped us create something that was a genuine reflection of ourselves and our relationship. Our guests absolutely loved the whole experience. Neil, we can't thank you (and Tanni!) enough. You formed an integral part of what will be a most treasured memory for us and our families forever. Kath & Brad xx

And yet more 💕 love at Innes House, for the wedding of Forres lovers Victoria & Aaron and where two hearts intertwine to become one. Stunning dress worn by Vicky who was a little nervous, both she and Aaron a wee bit emotional. To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Mclellan !💘

"On behalf of my husband & I, we honestly can not recommend Neil enough, he was amazing from start to finish! It was an answer pleasure having Neil as our celebrant. We both turned up to the ceremony a nervous wreck & as soon as the ceremony started, he put us both at ease. Neil was an absolute dream to work with. The amount of praise I have had from everyone about the ceremony is unreal, that’s all down to you Neil! Thank you so much for everything, you really a star ⭐️"

for the wedding of Iona and Liam...a young couple so much in love, so devoted to each other and so looking forward to spending the rest of their life together. They asked Tanni 🐶to bring the rings forward, which she did perfectly...then checked out Liam in a rather personal way! "I'm a married man!" exclaimed Liam...😂Lots of laughs, loads of love, they're like two pieces of a jigsaw, they fit together perfectly. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Kay. A lovely couple. 😍

"Myself and my new hubby cannot recommend Neil enough, he was amazing from start to finish in planning our wedding vows. Neil is a wonderful man and so smart and in tune with others. We really felt he managed to draw out of us what was needed for our ceremony and he is a joy to work with. I wish Neil the best of luck in his job as a celebrant, he truly is amazing at what he does and feel honoured to have had him (and the adorable Tanni!) as part of our wedding. X"

For the wedding of Melissa and Allen, who have eloped from Australia, just the two of them. Allen had proposed at Edinburgh Castle in the most romantic way ever. Fortunately the rain stayed away long enough today, the midges too!...the sun shone and their love 💗 blossomed, illustrated by their deeply personal and self composed vows. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Mentiplay. 💕
The Flodigarry has been a hotel since 1928 and the famous sea view is almost endless towards the majestic Torridon mountains and is equally impressive towards the iconic Quiraing. Flodigarry is a scattered settlement on the north east side of the Trotternish peninsula on the island of Skye. The small island of Eilean Flodigarry lies less than 1 kilometre off the coast with Sgier na Éireann just beyond to the north east. In 1750 the Jacobite Flora MacDonald and her fiancé Allan MacDonald were married and lived in a cottage in Floddigarry. In 2008 the singer KT Tunstall was married at the Flodigarry Hotel which abuts the cottage.

"Neil was both professional and also personable , made myself and my now wife very relaxed during our ceremony but this was due to his commitment of keeping in touch for months prior to our secret elopement to the isle of Skye , the time he took and the little touches and advice he offered was second to none, Neil was simply amazing and made our special day the best day ever, thank you Neil from both myself and Melissa"

For the wedding of Anna & Fraser...second wedding of the day. Fraser asked her out on their first date with a chocolate love heart from Thornton’s. She couldn’t resist! (I’m not sure if it was Fraser or the chocolate heart she couldn’t resist!) All in all a wonderfully loving and family day in the spectacular setting of Innes House...the rain eased, Anna was stunning in her Vera Wang dress, Fraser was cool as a cucumber. The extensive walled garden and the house are magnificent settings and provide a romantic background for any wedding. And Mark Tennant, of the occupying family, even piped the couple back up the aisle after the ceremony. Big thanks to Jane, their wedding coordinator - she's just great to work with. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Strachan!
Innes House was built by Sir Robert Innes between 1640 - 1651 and was the home of the Innes family until 1767 when Sir James Innes went bankrupt and sold the estate to the 2nd Earl of Fife - who spent a great deal of money on the house and estate and planted many of the superb trees which are in the parkland today. At the beginning of the last century the house was bought by Francis and Annie Tennant who considerably enlarged and modernised the house. Francis was the second son of the first Lord Glenconner whose grandfather invented bleaching powder. Lord Glenconner was one of the great Scottish industrialists of the 19th century who amongst other achievements had his last child when he was 85 - she became Baroness Elliott of Harwood and when she died in 1997 aged 98, her father had been born the year before the Battle of Waterloo! The House was completely refurbished by Mark & Hermione Tennant in 1997, who also created the ‘Garden Room’, or as they say: “Some houses have a Marquee in their garden, but Innes has a Garden in their Marquee!” The present owners of the house are Edward & Zoë Tennant - Edward represents the 5th generation of the Tennant Family to own Innes, making him the great-great-grandson of Francis Tennant.

Photograph ©Tony Marsh.

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a smashing wee wedding today in the community hall at Aulbea, Wester Ross for Jennifer & Gordon. The bride's sister Fiona did a fantastic job of decorating the hall - the place was festooned with wild flowers and beautiful it was too- and then walked Jennifer down the aisle to her beau Gordon, waiting nervously. It all went well though, their kids Aiden and Connie enjoyed participating in the sand unity vase ceremony. Almost the entire community turned out for the wedding...this place will be rocking tonight!

"Thank you so much Neil, for an amazing ceremony. We loved it. So many people have commented on how lovely it was; the words and your delivery. It was everything we hoped for and more. Thank you so so much. Jennifer Coatsworth"

All the way from Ontario in Canada with just close family & friends...to this mystical, mysterious and almost magical place, Carissa & Rory found the perfect place to declare their love.

Neil, Thank you so, so much for putting together the perfect ceremony. We truly could not be happier with how it went - and your sense of humour really pulled the whole thing together. We travelled from Canada to be married at Eilean Donan Castle on July 3rd of this year. We could not have asked for a better person to marry us. Thank you Neil for putting together a ceremony that was so personalized and true to us. We so appreciate all of your guidance and humour during the entire process, straight through the ceremony. Thank you!! Carissa & Rory.

The sun is shining, I’m in the beautiful walled garden, all is quiet except the birds singing...all will change shortly with the wedding of Sara and Matthew. What a fantastic place to have your wedding ceremony! All weddings 👰🏼 🎩 are special but this one was even more so..,for Sara and Matthew invited Sara’s mum an dad Carol and Ian to share in their magical day by inviting them to renew their vows after 30 years of married bliss! So we had two ceremonies much to the surprise and delight of all the guests. Lots of laughs, a few happy tears and a bucketful of 💕 love 💕. What a day! Congratulations to BOTH couples.
The Byre At Inchyra is a converted cowshed on the Inchyra Estate, Glencarse, Perth. And whilst that may not sound particularly glamorous, it has become a very popular place to get married. This estate and country house dates back to 1795 with the original cattle byre built in 1877. Lord and Lady Inchyra performed a complete transformation of the building in 2014.

"What a day! What a day! What a day!
Neil, Matthew and I want to thank you so much- your cheeky charm and professionalism won us over, you made us feel completely at ease and you made our ceremony so personal and just so wonderful, we were so blessed to share our day with my mum and dad who renewed their vows after 31 years of marriage which meant the world to both matthew and I but also to my mum and dad especially after my dads MND diagnosis a few years ago, which has been incredibly hard for the whole family so there was tears, but happy tears!! What a special moment I’ll never forget, Neil you made our wedding day something we shall never forget, so we thank you for that,
Sara & Matthew, x

Thank you so much to the wonderful Neil for doing such a fantastic job at our wedding on saturday, you made the day super special and really captured matthew and I's relationship perfectly, it was light hearted, very personal and just amazing!!! So thank you so very much...Sara

Thank you so much Neil for a wonderful ceremony for my beautiful daughter and Matthew, a wedding to remember.
Ian and are are also truly honoured to have had the opportunity to share our renewal vows with the happy couple. Happy day with many wonderful memories. Thank you 😊 Carol.x

A couple of Irish peeps from London got hitched today, Neist Point on Skye providing a lovely backdrop. The haar had lifted by the time I got there and the sun was shining. Anne-Marie and Pat were on form, plenty laughs, (including at my expense when I slipped up during the vows.) (Oh, and Pat was troubled with a fly in his eye )All in all a lovely family day. Congratulations Mr & Mrs McLafferty! 💖 ☘️ ☀️ Fa’ilte
Two souls with but a single thought,Two hearts that beat as one.

"Dealing with Neil was a pleasure from the initial contact to the end of our wedding ceremony. He was helpful and informative. He conducted the ceremony with warmth and professionalism and an amazing personal touch. We couldn't have had anyone else do such a stellar job. Neil, thank you for an amazing wedding - everyone was blown away. It was perfect. Anne-Marie & Pat"

There is nothing more magical than holding your marriage ceremony on the banks of Loch Lomond amidst the grounds of an exclusive private beach. Tie the knot within feet of the water and the soft hues of Ben Lomond in the background. Whether you use a star shade marquee or opt for a full open air ceremony, you’ll start your married life in front of an unforgettable backdrop.

...Sarah and Dominic are now Mr & Mrs Fitzgerald. Congratulations! “Love is like a friendship caught on fire.”

Neil, Thanks so much for conducting our ceremony on the banks of Loch Lomond. It was everything we could hope for and all just so perfect. We can’t thank you enough. Sarah & Dom xx

See the link for a lovely wedding video from Candlelight Pictures

https://vimeo.com/285611970

Tanni & I on the road again...for the wedding of Becky & Phil at Carberry Tower, this romantic place with Royal connections. A couple so well-matched, so right for each other and SO in love.. a little nervousness, a few laughs and tears too...and so much love. 💖 Congratulations Mr & Mrs Ellis! "When the one whose hand you're holding Is the one who holds your heart"

"Just wanted to Thank you for officiating Rebecca and Phil’s Wedding. You pitched everything perfectly and made the whole service so beautiful, personnel and special. Everyone commented on how wonderful it was , and how brilliantly you made everything flow. They all loved the explanations of the traditions and how interesting you made everything. Sorry about the Bride making the Groom wait 20 mins, but you helped to keep him calm and everyone relaxed. Once again, Thank you for everything Neil, You ( and your dog!) were amazing, Julie, Mother of the Bride, x x "

"Thank you for making the service so special. I was very dubious when Rebecca said what sort of service they were having but it could not have been better. You put everyone at ease and made it so personal to them it was amazing. X Ethel Barker"

One of the great Castle Mansion House of Scotland, Carberry Tower is situated just outside Edinburgh in beautiful East Lothian countryside.
Standing regally in 35 acres of stunning, private Estate parkland and widely recognised as Edinburgh's 'Castle in the country,' Carberry Tower is a place of intimate grandeur and to arrive here, is to weave your own story into a history that goes back to 1480 when the first foundation stone was laid.
Since then, it's been a gathering place for Kings and Queens, Princes and Princesses and over the centuries, the great and the good have all come to warm themselves by the fires and feast from the banqueting tables. a long and proud Royal connection with Her Majesty the Queen, who often visited Carberry Tower with her sister Princess Margaret. The Queen Mother’s sister, Lady Margaret Elphinstone, used to live here and consequently King George VI, the Queen’s father, often visited with his wife, the late Queen Mother. During that period, the two young Princesses, Elizabeth and Margaret, enjoyed playing in the extensive grounds with their cousin Margaret, often accompanied by family and loved ones who joined in the fun and games.

They say everything is bigger in Texas...well, this lovely couple from Austin were blown away (almost literally) by the dramatic big sky, the stunningly huge backdrop of the Quiraing and the full blast of a Scottish November afternoon. But it was all a marvellous accompaniment to the love they have for each other, the words they shared and the experience of standing there in this other-wordly place...just the two of them, lost in their thoughts and dreams. 💘💘💘It was certainly a day for the brave with an arctic blast to contend with...but a day to remember for sure. And Tanni made a welcome come-back too. Photo courtesy of

https://www.dannybirrellphotography.co.uk/latest-work/2017/11/23/jordan-travis-isle-of-skye-elopement

To celebrate the love ❤️ of Sarah Louise Grigor & Chris Cull. They're both as mad as a box of frogs, 🐸 they spread their wings and fly together. They share a passion for ultra distance running, they, and daughter Bethany, all completed the Loch Ness Marathon before the ceremony today (Sarah's 100th marathon!, Bethany's first marathon and Chris's first Loch Ness marathon). They are deeply in love, so right for each other. Their friends and family gathered to celebrate their love, their commitment and their future together - it was a joy to be part of their special day. So many wonderfully personal and decorative touches at the venue - an amazing cake! - and so much happiness for this lovely couple. Nothing can compare to the joy of being loved by the one who owns your heart, and loves you exactly the way you love them.

"Neil - I would have had nobody else but you to unite us. You helped make it so perfect - and fun! So many people commented on it being the most touching and personal ceremony they have ever seen. We cannot thank you enough for being such a perfect part of it 💜"

Nigg Old Parish Church was my interesting destination today - Nigg (from the Scottish Gaelic: An Neag meaning "the notch", referring to a feature of the hills above the parish church) is a village and parish in Easter Ross. It lies on the north shore of the entrance to the Cromarty Firth and I was there to conduct the wedding of Lynsey & Scott, a lovely couple who now live in Edinburgh. Simple ceremony with lots of family & friends participation, mums lit candles, some beautiful poetry read by a bridesmaid and more from a friend of the couple. Quaich ceremony with a quaich presented by an uncle, packed venue, lots of kids, loads of laughs and bundles of love.
There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment. 😍

a beautiful wedding for a beautiful couple in a beautiful setting - a great pair to work with, kept their ceremony loving and simple, intimate venue, family & friends loved it.

"Thank you so much for last Saturday- independently, we both had so many compliments on the ceremony, people really loved that it was relaxed but both personal to me and Mark. I was so delighted with the whole day- it just passed far too quick." Louise

Click on the link for the beautiful wedding video by Orchard Wedding Films, Peterhead; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5JhuvG1ync

I recently married this lovely couple who composed their own vows in their entirety; they read them to each other, holding hands and looking lovingly into each other's eyes...we had Shakespearian quotations, poetry from a Bridesmaid, 3 things the couple love about the other, symbolic gestures and this... (almost brought a lump to my throat)...(reproduced with their kind permission)

"Daniel - you are the person I want to build my life with.
You are a kind, loyal, passionate person who I love laughing with.
Your friendship and unwavering support is something I know I can rely on through good times and bad.
I promise today and always to share your dreams and help you achieve your goals, working with you and never against you.
I will care for you as you care for me, sharing equally in the responsibilities we both bring to our marriage.
I understand that marriage will not always be easy but promise to celebrate the highs and am committed to working with you through the lows.
I cannot wait to continue life’s adventure with you by my side.
It is with a joyous heart that I take you as my husband and pledge my whole heart to you in front of our friends and families.
I Erin accept you Daniel, in marriage to be my lawfully wedded husband."

Ashley and Kieran, Valentines Day wedding at Achnagairn. Super day, 🌞lovely weather, fabulous couple and a lovely ceremony with some unique and innovative symbolic gestures, lots of Scots & Americans, single malts, tartan = a perfect day for a lovely couple.

"You performed a beautiful, heartfelt ceremony...thank-you for adding so much to this very special day! Nancy, (Mother of the bride) Oh and the scotch tasting was fabulous!" https://www.harperscottphoto.com/blog/2017/3/20/achnagairn-castle-wedding-photography

"Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the lovely service you gave my dad yesterday, you spoke so eloquently about him, I think if you had met my dad the two of you would have got on, listening to all his stories and local historical knowledge. Love fee xx"

2018;

2017;

Dear Neil

"I would like to thank you on behalf of my family and I for the lovley service you gave my dad John. It made a tough time more easier that we could laugh and joke and every one we spoke to afterwards said it was briliant and very fitting - so thank you very much. Pamela & family."

Dear Neil, On behalf of the entire family I just wanted to let you know how much we appreciated all your work on behalf of mum. Your kindness, diligence and attention to detail made our loss a little easier and the Service of Remembrance very special. Having attended a Humanist Family wedding we knew the personal nature of the Service was what we wanted from the start but without exception all comments and remarks from those attending have been positive and declaring what a lovely Service it was. Whilst I appreciate it is what you do and the skill comes with your experience I am just wanting you to know how very special it was for us. Thank you, Evelyn and family"

2016;

“I can’t thank you adequately for yesterday Neil. The ceremony was absolutely perfect – celebrated the happy times, the good times of my wife’s life and was commented on by everyone. And thank you especially for your warmth and understanding.”

“Dear Neil, Just a short note to say that we very much appreciated the service for Mum this afternoon. We felt it hit exactly the right note. A lot of people came up to me at the reception to say that they thought it was a brilliant service and just right for her. So thank you very much indeed for that.”

"Hi Neil,

I just wanted to send on the family’s thanks for putting together and running such a lovely service on Friday for Grandma’s funeral. You really did make what is a very sad time that little bit better.Thanks again,

Sonia (and family)"

Baby Rayne’s naming ceremony today. A very special ceremony. This gorgeous wee girl has not had an easy time of it recently but she was all smiles today as usual. Friends & family did readings, candles were lit and there was a lovely unity vase sand ceremony with pastel colours. All of the selected readings were simply beautiful...and we look to the future, give Rayne our best wishes, hopes and dreams for her...with a short extract from mum Karen's reading; " Now you're here to brighten up each day, And fill our life with happiness in so many ways. Every night I will stand your door, And tell you, Rayne, that I love you more. "Thank you for giving me the honour Karen Dawson

Omg what a brilliant day Rayne's Naming ceremony was perfect, thank you so much Neil, everyone really enjoyed the ceremony. Glad she finally got her day. You were fab. Xxx Karen

It was a perfect day and a beautiful ceremony Thank you Neil. Munchkin would not give in to sleep stayed up partying all day. She’s a wee 🌟 xxxxx Granny Beatrice Jamieson

A wonderful picture from the wedding at Eilean Donan Castle this evening, © Penny Hardie Photography. Best castle in the world to have your wedding. Romantic, mystical, magical, historical. At the meeting of 3 lochs. On a moody Scottish summer evening. What more could you ask for. Just the perfect place for Heather & Wesley to tie the knot with a tiny group of friends & family and follow that with a toast to each other and their marriage...with a combination of Scotch & Irish whiskies - that's called a marriage of whiskies!